While it is true there are an endless number of expats in Italy, the blogosphere, like a good cocktail party, pulls us party-going bloggers together, helps us mingle, gives us the courage to interact. One of the newest bloggers I’ve been chatting it up with lately is another southern Italy expat, located just across the foot of the boot, in Puglia.

1. So tell us, Sara, how did you end up in Molfetta, Italy?

I had been teaching English in Japan and felt I wanted a change. After taking a master’s degree in Teaching English as a Foreign Language at the School for International Training in Vermont, I started sending out applications for jobs around Europe.

I had a few different offers, but decided to take a job at a private language school in Bari. Through a friend of a friend I ended up meeting my future husband, Francesco. Our relationship got off to a rocky start because after we had been dating for only a couple of months a series of events led me to leave Italy and return to the States: the Gulf War broke out and sentiment was rather anti-American around Bari, my father had an emergency operation back in the States, the school I was working for never got around to getting me a work visa…

I said good-by to Italy and Francesco and thought that that was that. But, Francesco had other ideas and followed me around the world, even coming to Japan, where I had returned to teach again, and in the end convinced me to come back to Italy and give life with him a try. He was born and raised in Molfetta, so that’s how I ended up here.

2. What are some of the differences between the US and southern Italy when it comes to rearing your children?

I’ve never raised children in the US, so any differences that I have noticed are more products of my memory of being raised in the US than anything else. And I was a child a long time ago! One thing I really appreciate about Italians is their love of children. They love kids’ energy and noise and accept it much more readily than many other cultures do. However, that causes us some problems when my perfectly well-behaved children (by Italian standards) go to the US and are perceived as being too noisy, undisciplined and even rude.

It’s hard on them because they are suddenly expected to behave differently, and hard on me, too, because I hate for them to be seen as behaving inappropriately. Something that used to drive me crazy about having small children in Italy was the way that Italians feel perfectly justified in coming up to you and giving you unsolicited advice, or even scolding you, because you are treating your child in some way that is different from what the Italian advice-giver would expect.

The Italians accept noise and confusion and little kids staying up till midnight and running around the pizzeria like maniacs, but they go into a panic if your child doesn’t wear 3 or 4 layers of wool, including cap with ear-flaps after the first day of winter, irregardless of what the weather is actually like! And let’s not even mention the whole issue of catching a draught after working up a sweat, it seems like the number one Italian parental fear. As an American I always thought that a good gust of wind would dry me off if I were sweating, never imagined it could bring on illness and who knows what other dread conditions! You can really get caught in a cross-cultural bind of contrasting expectations!

3. What family traditions have you started in Italy?

As a bi-cultural family, we have tried to combine the best traditions from both cultures. We celebrate all the Italian holidays, plus as many American ones as possible. We usually have both a Halloween party and a Carnival party. We open gifts from family members on Christmas eve in the Italian tradition, but then Santa Claus comes during the night, American-style. On December 6, San Nicola leaves gifts for my children and the Befana leaves them candies on the night of January 6. At Easter we participate in all of the Italian church activities and processions, but we also paint Easter eggs and leave them in baskets for the Easter Bunny to hide during the night. You could say that we do it all!

4. What do you miss the most from home-besides family and friends, of course?

I first came to Italy in 1990 and then returned definitively in 1992, so while I’ll always be American in my heart, southern Italy has become my “normal.” This is where I have my home and where I feel “at home.” I don’t really miss life in the USA much, to be honest. But, there are some things… For one, I miss US TV. I’m not a big TV watcher, but I wish I could see the new shows as they come out each year.

Another thing I miss is access to a variety of ethnic foods. Italian food is great (as any Italian will be quick to tell you!), but I miss Thai, Japanese, Mexican, barbeque… These things may even be available in the distant north part of Italy (for me that includes Rome!), but in the deep south such things can only be dreamed of!

And the main thing I miss is the abundant choice that is available in the US. Choice in everything: foods, household goods, educational options, sports, clothes, you name it. When I go back to the States I always want to stock up on so many products that I can’t get around here. I limit myself to Tollhouse chocolate chips, vanilla flavouring and Ziplock bags, otherwise my suitcase would be way over my weight limit!

5. What is your favorite thing about Puglia?

Puglia is a beautiful region. We have miles and miles and miles of beautiful coastline along the Adriatic Sea. There are many lovely little towns with historical centers well-worth visiting. There are castles, archaeological sites, nature preserves. The local food is simple but delicious. It’s a great area!

Thank you, Sara! You can learn more about Sara and Puglia by visiting her blogs Amid the Olive Trees and Molfetta Daily Photos.

Cherrye Moore is an American freelance writer living in southern Italy. In addition to AffordableCallingCards.net, she writes about living and traveling in Calabria on her site, My Bella Vita. Comments and messages are welcome on both sites. All photos by Sara of Molfetta Daily Photo.

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Great interview! It’s always nice to hear expat stories from the south, must be so different than Rome or Florence for example.

Thanks, Regina. It is different and I was interested to see how Sara’s point of view was different from mine, even here in Calabria! Thanks for reading!

I really enjoyed this interview. It isn’t often you get to read about expats who have stayed in a country permanently. I have similar experiences, especially about food.

Thanks, Deby. I agree. Most of the expats I know here in Italy have been here less than 10 years. Sara is a pro!

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